The INFJ door slam is when an INFJ has had enough abuse and decides to cut a person out of their lives. In essence, they slam the door on that person and that relationship.
Like magic. Presto. Now you see it, now you don't.
Often, this is permanent, but a door slam can be reversed. I still say...
Today’s blog is a pretty simple one, but sometimes the simplest things can help us the most.
The truth is there are times in our INFJ lives where we are particularly unbalanced and we feel super burnt out. We are overwhelmed and we have absorbed a few too many of the negative emotions...
The INFJs that I’ve talked to always seem to have a narcissist horror story to share. And while I know that narcissists don’t attack INFJs exclusively, it does seem that we are a favorite target.
This can even lead some INFJs who have experienced abuse from a narcissist to avoid...
INFJs are truly a paradox. We love people and we want to help them, but they truly exhaust us.
In addition, social situations can cause us massive anxiety and worry. We worry that we will say or do the wrong thing. And we also worry that those we interact with will be unfair, rude, or...
As INFJs we are often multi-talented individuals, and sadly I think this can be one of the main reasons we are often rejected by other people. I’m not trying to be arrogant here, but most INFJs have a multitude of skills. They also have knowledge about a variety of topics.
Sadly, this is...
About nine years ago I purchased a book written by Seneca (a Stoic philosopher). I must say that I never expected that I’d get valuable life lessons from Stoicism. Honestly, had no clue what Stoicism was and had no idea what it had to offer. However, after digging into the book I felt that...
As an INFJ who loves exercise, sometimes I believe I am a bit of an outlier. However, from a very young age I was interested in fitness (thanks to movies like Rocky IV and Bloodsport) and I took up weight training quite early.
However, I understand that as an INFJ sometimes activities like...
About three years ago I picked up a book by James Clear called Atomic Habits. It was a really strange title and at first I really didn’t know what to make of it – but, as an INFJ, it turned out to be one of my favorite self-help books.
James Clear puts forth the idea that by...
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