What if you could end the pain and misunderstanding and enjoy a truly Abundant INFJ Life?

 Discover the Framework that takes you from feeling like a misfit to finally feeling understood and at peace with your INFJ life.

The Tools in the INFJ Abundant Life Framework Have Changed Thousands of INFJ lives.


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INFJ life can be tough...

  • Do you often feel misunderstood?
  • Do you sometimes wonder if something is wrong with you?
  • Do you feel like you are never accepted for who you are?
  • Do you "feel" and "absorb" the emotions of others?
  • Do you get exhausted around crowds?
  • Do you feel like you haven't lived your true life's purpose?
  • Do you have a lack of deep and meaningful connections with others?
  • Do you feel you lack identity and often wonder who you really are?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, the INFJ Abundant Life Audit is for you.

By learning how to take charge of your self-confidence, self-worth, and identity, you will be able to tackle the biggest problems in your INFJ life.

With The INFJ Abundant Life Framework (which I'll teach you in the audit) you will quickly learn how to embrace your personality and live life on YOUR terms.

Nancy Cooper

The framework given to me by Jay literally saved my marriage. I was finally able to get through to my husband about my personality and needs. I highly recommend investing in Jay's Audit.

Arthur Pak

I began by watching Jay's videos but craved something much more personalized. The INFJ Abundant Life Audit was just what I was looking for. I am now able to navigate life with knowledge and precision. Thanks Jay!

Aimee Wright

I never thought I could understand myself (and my personality) so well. This has been life-changing. I finally feel understood and I've stopped feeling like I don't belong. I belong as much as anyone else! Jay taught me to love myself. I'm so appreciative!

Look, it's pretty normal for INFJs to feel like outcasts from society at some time in their lives...


That sounds rough, but it’s true.

If you don’t feel like that, you should count yourself lucky.

But the truth is many INFJs feel this way, and it can lead to very painful and challenging lives.

But what can you do about it?

Well, the INFJ Abundant Life Audit will help you to identify the issues in your life that are causing you the most pain.

When you identify the issues that are causing the pain, you can address them at the source.

For example, maybe your issue is self-confidence and worrying what other people think of you.

By developing your confidence and self-worth (all part of the INFJ Abundant Life Framework that you’ll receive with your audit), you’ll be able to attack those issues at their source and improve your life dramatically.

You'll gain confidence, develop self-worth and self-love, and your life will finally take on true meaning and purpose.

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Jay Scott

Hi I’m Jay Scott, INFJ coach, YouTuber (32,000 subs and growing), and founder of The INFJ Circle. I'm pumped to help you build an INFJ life that allows you to finally find your true calling, feel strong and confident, and live life on YOUR terms, not the terms of other people.

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I always felt different from everyone around me. Like an outsider looking in.


For as long as I can remember I felt different from other people. 

To be honest, for most of my life I felt like a freak or a misfit.

Normal, everyday things were very draining for me.

Grade school was very difficult. I remember "feeling" all of the emotions of the other kids.

By the end of the day I was literally exhausted.

As I grew, I tried to fit in with others, but my interests never seemed to align with theirs.

I didn't talk a lot because I the deep and meaningful topics I loved so much were never accepted as others.

If I brought these topics up the person I was talking to would act strange and then avoid me from that point on.

This continued through high school and college and into adulthood.

I kept looking for answers, but to be honest, I really had given up on finding any.

I just settled in to the fact that I didn't operate on the same bandwidth as other people - that they didn't accept me, and that they eventually rejected me... 

As I stated earlier, I honestly had no idea why. I just knew it was true.

Then, in 2017, I found the answer...


On YouTube of all places!

 I found a video about INFJs and their unique traits.

It explained my life so well it was eerie...

And my life changed in an instant.

I went and took several online tests and all came back INFJ.

I instinctively knew I had found the answer to the greatest mystery of my life.

Why I was different. Why I didn't seem to think in the same way as other people. 

Why I didn't quite fit in.

Suddenly, a whole new world opened up to me. 

"Nosce te ipsum."

That is Latin for "know thyself."

For years I had studied self-help, ancient wisdom, and behavioral science to do just that.

To solve my (unique) problems and to better understand myself.

But it all seemed to fall flat.

Much of the advice didn't seem to apply to me or to solve my particular issues.

Now I knew why...

The truth is that the greatest psychologists and therapists are often unable to relate to (or help) people with the INFJ personality type...


Because they aren't INFJs themselves.

They just don't get us.

The truth is that us INFJs are a bit different...


Much of the self-help advice out there is geared to the general population.

In the same way that mainstream clothes are made for "average" body types, mainstream self-help and therapy techniques are made for average personality and psychological types. 

That means, as an INFJ, you have to be very selective about what advice you take.

Let me give you a quick example.

One piece of advice that is often given out to the masses is to get out and "help others" to have a better, more fulfilling life.

Volunteer your time. Give more and more of yourself to feel more whole and complete.

While this advice is true - it's often the exact opposite of what someone with the INFJ personality type should do.

An INFJs natural inclination is to give and give...until our tanks are empty...

The remedy for us INFJs is almost always to help ourselves as much as we usually help others.

To care for ourselves and nurture our own well-being like we've been doing for others our entire lives.

We need to put ourselves first for a change and say no to helping others more often.

After all, our whole life leans towards putting others ahead of ourselves. 

And there is plenty more self-help advice that is good for the masses but just terrible for us as INFJs.

Here is another one. Has anyone ever told you to "get out more" when you are feeling overwhelmed or frustrated?

That is horrible advice for an INFJ!

Most of the time INFJs who are overwhelmed and frustrated need to do just the opposite!

They need to stay in and recharge until they are ready to face the world again...


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So, with so much confusing misinformation out there, is it even possible to improve our INFJ lives? Is there any way out of the (often) painful reality of INFJ existence?


The answer is a resounding YES!

But self-help for the masses must be carefully considered and vetted (which is what I've been doing since 2017). 

The advice and help must be specific and tailored specifically for the INFJ personality type.

One size fits all is just not going to work for us INFJs!

However, when all of this advice is ran through the filter of the INFJ personality type, there is a TON of information out there that becomes worth it's weight in gold.

Here are just a few examples of things which (if you learn about them) will supercharge your INFJ life:

  1. Boundaries. Learning to enforce boundaries is a game-changer for INFJs.
  2. Self-Confidence. Using specific tools to enhance your self-confidence can change your INFJ life.
  3. Self-Worth. Learning that you are a valuable person and are worthy of love and respect will make your INFJ life so much more enjoyable.

The list goes on, but you get the point.

INFJs have specific problems that require specific solutions.

Cookie cutter approaches just won't work for us.

We need specific, actionable steps (tailored to our own needs) to take our INFJ lives to the next level...

How did I come up with the Framework?


As I mentioned earlier, I was never an INFJ to sit on his laurels.

I always thought there was a "cure" for the painful life I was experiencing.

So, I was always trying to better myself and figure out what was "wrong with me."

Well, as we now know, there was nothing wrong with me...

But I was indeed living a unique life.

Life as an INFJ.

Learning that I was an INFJ opened a whole new set of doors for me...

While my efforts to better myself by using self-help and behavioral science helped somewhat before I knew I was an INFJ...

It was  after I learned about the unique characteristics of the INFJ personality type that I was truly off to the races.

The puzzle pieces all started to fit together. I could finally see what I things I lacked as an INFJ - as well as my strong points.

I could also see the areas where I just needed to let go and achieve peace of mind. *And oh how refreshing this is!

I finally understood why some pieces of advice helped me and others didn't seem to apply to me at all.

So, I just went about my normal INFJ life, and every time I had an issue or pain point I would simply research the INFJ tendency that was causing it.

Then I would seek out and study the specific piece of self-help, behavioral science, (or ancient wisdom) that would address that particular issue in my INFJ life.

I did this over and over with things like self-confidence, self-worth, self-love, and life fulfillment.

*By the way it was the life fulfillment issue that caused me to switch careers and fulfill my dream of becoming a YouTuber/Coach, and I've never been happier. Maybe you have something in your life you've always dreamed of doing?

I also researched the pain points of communication and authenticity...

No matter the issue, whenever a tactic or strategy solved a problem in my INFJ life, I would write it down in my notes.

It was a keeper.

When something didn't work I would discard it (or reiterate) and try again.

Over time I noticed that my life was improving. My stress levels were down.

My peace and self-love were up.

I felt different (better) about myself and I was not ashamed to be myself.

I just didn't care so much.

If someone didn't like me so be it, that was one less person to fret over.

In addition, I stopped feeling responsible for the feelings of those around me.

It was truly life-changing.

After I learned enough I felt like I needed to share it with others going through the same issues.

So, I started my YouTube Channel, The INFJ Circle.

I began to help people all over the world teaching pieces of my Framework in my videos.

Shortly thereafter I helped other INFJs through my coaching and blogs.

And finally, I solidified all that I had learned into a 5 Step System to help INFJs all over the world.

I call it The INFJ Abundant Life Framework.

Here is the System:

1. Self-Love: Without this foundation in place an INFJ cannot have a complete life.

2. Mindfulness: This includes controlling our thoughts (yes, you are in control) and learning to harness the power of the INFJ mind.

3. Self-Confidence: This allows the INFJ to stand on their own - not being at the mercy of those around them.

4. Authenticity: An INFJ can only have a great life if they feel allowed to be themselves. This section shows you how.

5. Fulfillment: Are you in the right relationship? The right job? To be content as an INFJ must have a life that satisfies these needs.

 Trust me, there is a lot of depth to each section...

And it takes work to implement them and make them a part of your life...

But if you do put in the work  - the results are downright amazing.


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The INFJ Abundant Life Audit. This is the same Framework I used to change my INFJ life.

I used this Framework to bust through my INFJ life challenges and go after my dream of starting a successful YouTube channel.

Not only did I accomplish this goal (my channel has 32,000 subs and growing), but I also:

  • Stopped caring what others think of my INFJ life.
  • Reduced my stress by an estimated 80%.
  • Finally started to love myself and see my worth.
  • Stopped feeling misunderstood by making myself perfectly clear to others.
  • Found my true calling as a YouTuber and coach for other INFJs.
  • And much, much more...

The question is, are you ready to make these kinds of changes in your life? And another question...

What will happen if you don't make these changes? How happy will your life be? Where do you think you will end up?

Will things ever change? What reason would they have to change if you don't take appropriate action?

Those are the questions that kept me studying and learning year after year - finding the answers to one INFJ struggle after another...until eventually I had The INFJ Abundant Life Framework.

And now I'm making it available to all INFJs - for a low one-time investment!

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The last thing the INFJ Abundant Life Audit is is "cookie-cutter".


The INFJ Abundant Life Audit is anything but "cookie-cutter" and "for the masses."

Why? Because you'll be meeting with me, and I'm going to tailor it to your specific INFJ life issues.

Here is what you'll get when you sign up for the Audit:

  • A One-on-One session with Jay (via Zoom) where he will analyze your personal INFJ issues and give you specific areas to work on that will supercharge your INFJ life. Make sure to bring a paper and pen and jot down any questions you'd like to ask me before our session! *Note: If you'd rather stay off camera you can do audio only.
  • Access to Jay's INFJ Abundant Life Framework in a printable format (this 16 page PDF is a real game-changer).
  • A specific game plan (checklist) that will allow you to work on each component one at a time and at your own pace.
  • A short quiz that will drive home the most important aspects of the Framework.
  • A list of my favorite resources (books, podcasts, etc.) that will help you on your transformation journey.
  • 4 weeks of Email access to Jay, where you can send him any questions you have and let him know how you are progressing!
  • A 100% Risk-Free Money-Back Guarantee. That's right, if you aren't satisfied for any reason you can get a full refund.


So what is the INFJ Abundant Life Framework that's included with the Audit?


It's an end-to-end turn key system that slowly but surely changes your INFJ life from one of confusion and pain to one of peace, relief, abundance, and clarity.

Let's put it simply. The Framework teaches you all the things you've needed to know since you were a child - but that nobody could teach you because they were not INFJs themselves...

The INFJ Abundant Life Framework will help you create:
  • One-on-One connection with an INFJ (just like you):   Most INFJs have never even met another INFJ, let alone had a chance to sit down and be coached by one! Let me tell you, the 1 hour session that comes with the audit is all about you. Let's sit down together and come up with a game plan to change your life!
  • A sense of self-understanding and self-love like you have never experienced before. The confusion will end - you will finally understand your unique personality.
  • The ability to detach from "feeling" and "absorbing" others emotions. Yes, this is not only possible, but imperative if you want to live a peaceful and fulfilling INFJ life.
  • The life of your dreams. How? With my classic "What's Missing For Me?" exercise, you will uncover the dreams and desires you've been suppressing (so that you can finally go after them). 
  • Amazing Self-Confidence. Did you know there are specific ways to boost your INFJ self-confidence? Well, there is, and I will show them to you.
  • Communication and success. Have you ever felt like others just don't "get you?" As an INFJ it can be tough to communicate with other types. My Framework will show you the ins and outs of communication - which we all know is linked to success in life.
  • Life Fulfillment. This may sound like I'm over promising, but I'm not. Once you begin to understand how you can control your thoughts, communicate effectively, and love yourself, your life will become so much more fulfilling.

The INFJ Abundant Life Audit is a structured pathway to a better INFJ life. It gives you all the tools you need to live a happy and fulfilling INFJ life...

After your one hour session with Jay you will simply follow the outline and action steps listed on the PDF document you'll receive.

You can do this at your own pace so that you never feel overwhelmed or frustrated as you learn and grow.


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No-Fail Checklists Included


After your Audit (1 hour session with Jay) you will simply follow the list on your PDF worksheet to improve each area of your INFJ life.

Jay will give you specific direction on areas of your INFJ life during the session - but all INFJs should complete all of the tasks on the INFJ Framework worksheet.

This is a course of sorts, and the material builds from one lesson to the next. 

Each section will have dedicated action steps.

These are your homework - a checklist of sorts that gives you clear benchmarks and “next steps” so you know exactly what to do first, second, and third with all the information you’ve just consumed.

With the step-by-step system and clear action steps, you can’t fail.

Just check off each action step as you go.



The INFJ Abundant Life Audit isn't based on fads.


In fact, if you were to show the INFJ Abundant Life Framework to a Behavioral Therapist, they would nod in agreement with it's curriculum.

The Framework is based on real science combined with self-help and ancient wisdom that is timelessly true.

The difference is that it is tailored specifically for us as INFJs.

Made by an INFJ, for INFJs.

Let me tell you, INFJ coaches with good reputations are as rare as hen's teeth (as my Granny used to say).

That makes our services very powerful (much more powerful that info provided by non-INFJs). 

Because of that I am able to charge upwards of $1,000 a month for private INFJ coaching.

Coaching that uses the very same INFJ Abundant Life Framework you get in this Audit!

Why is coaching so expensive?

Well, because nothing is more valuable than self-confidence, peace of mind, and, well, a happy life.

And my INFJ Framework delivers that in spades.

But when I decided to package my system into PDF course that anyone could follow at their own pace, I wanted to make it as accessible as possible.



And that’s why you can get instant access to the INFJ Abundant LIfe Audit program for just one payment of $297.

But slots go fast and I want you to get this opportunity. So, click the button to secure your spot today!

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Don’t forget: it’s completely risk free

I’ve packed a lot into The INFJ Abundant Life Audit because not only do I want you to create the INFJ life of your dreams and the lifestyle that you deserve but I want to guarantee that you don’t fail.

And to make it a no-brainer deal for you I’m giving you a 60 day 100% money-back guarantee with your purchase of The INFJ Abundant Life Audit today.

That’s right: Go through the Audit, check out the Abundant Life Framework, follow the steps, put in the work, and if you don’t love it in the first 60 days of your purchase, send me an email and I’ll refund you immediately. No questions asked, no hard feelings.

If The INFJ Abundant Life Audit doesn’t work for you, I’d much prefer for you to take your money and invest it where you will be happier and get results. I just want you to unlock your best INFJ life ever!

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